The Clark’s


Sandee’s Story: In 1978 I was sworn in as a Work Program Supervisor for Stanislaus County California and spent the the first two years in that position. The third year I was promoted to Sergeant and there was a patrol commander named Zane Clark that visited the women’s jail often. He made my knees go weak when I saw him.

In 1989 I was transferred to the Men’s Jail and worked for Lt. Clark. I worked many areas of the Sheriff’s Office and was promoted to Lieutenant in 2000. I was assigned to the Men’s Jail in 2002 being the second Lt. Clark to command that facility.

Last Friday night Zane and I attended a wonderful dinner at a favorite Mexican Restaurant with many folks we worked with. Two of the individuals there I refer to as bookends. One can’t be without the other and they are like my sons. Such gifted men.

The photograph below was taken in the early 2000s.  Zane was Assistant Sheriff of Operations and I was the Jail Commander in Adult Detention. I loved working at the Men’s Jail. It is now closed and is used for court transportation.

I was given a gift that night that made me smile from ear to ear. The above set of keys means the world to me.  I spent many years walking those tiers with a set of keys like this. A time I will cherish for the rest of my life.

70 thoughts on “The Clark’s

  1. onespoiledcat – Virginia – We are Angel Sammy and Teddy......! Two ginger cats - one left for the Rainbow Bridge in December of 2016 (but still keeps in touch...) and the other in the "here and now" having lots of fun. Join us as we try to bring smiles to everyone around us with our blog.
    Pamela J Kimmell says:

    What a wonderful story! I love “it was meant to be” stories – the romantic in me is still strong as ever. Thanks for sharing……here’s to romance……that lasts.

    Hugs, Pam

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We were the romance story indeed. Yes, here’s to romance. 🙂

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We both had wonderful careers and we’ve loved each other for many years before we got together. 🙂

  2. My GBGV Life – Minnesota, USA – I am a GBGV, Grand Basset Griffon Vendeén - enjoying my life and sharing my experiences.
    My GBGV Life says:

    Such a wonderful story with a storybook ending for the two of you. Not everyone finds their perfect person but you two sure did! Thank you so much for sharing and keep those keys safe!

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We sure did and at the end of this month we’ll have been married for 26 years. Scritches to the pups. 🙂

  3. Memories of Eric and Flynn – I started this blog to show my holiday photos but haven't added to it for so long, but you can see my other holiday photos at https://allatseawithme.blogspot.com My main blog is my cat blog at https://twodevoncats.blogspot.com
    Memories of Eric and Flynn says:

    What a wonderful story you had too. You were both destined to be together.

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We were destined to be together. We’re both happy we found each other. 🙂

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We’re most happy we’re retired. It’s a young persons game. Happy Good Friday. 🙂

  4. Xena, Lucy and Chia – Soddy Daisy, TN USA
    Amy says:

    So how long did it take from the first weak knees sighting to you two actually getting together? This is a great love story, both of you and Zane and of your work. I’m still smiling from ear to ear.

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      About 15 years. Took a very long time. Happy Good Friday. 🙂

  5. Eastside Cats Blog – Metro Detroit, Michigan USA – Follow my three cat families and other cat antics at https://eastsidecats.blogspot.com/
    Eastside Cats says:

    Cupid’s arrow found it’s mark!
    Wonderful!

  6. foguth – Though Jeanne began her career technical writing, her love of romantic-suspense, whether it be present, future or in an unknown galaxy inspired her to write the novels she wanted to find in bookstores. Since marrying, Jeanne and her husband have lived from the arctic to the tropics, as well as from yacht to off-grid mountain home. She loves using vivid colors and flowing shapes in her oil paintings as well as creating edible landscapes. At present, she is finishing writing the Chatterre Trilogy and working on a new episode for The Sea Purrtector Files. You can always find out what she is working on and/or contact her at: www.jeannefoguth.com.
    foguth says:

    Wonderful story! Amazing career.

  7. Binky – Wombania – Wombie comic strips twice a week.
    Binky says:

    Those are both really interesting stories! That’s so great you both found each other.

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      Thank you, Mike. Yes it continues today. My best to Seymour. 🙂

  8. mad says:

    I want to know when did you decide your were forever lifers… LOVE this story, also the photos are great. were you married when you would have been Mr and Mrs Lt Clarks?

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      When we married Zane was the assistant sheriff. Happy Good Friday. Scritches to Beau. 🙂

  9. Heidi Dare Turner Jenkins – MURFREESBORO NC – There was a girl who got through the day with routines and laughter. and some memes…chores, laughs, smiles, and some cats…food, naps, plus coffee too…then yoga for the win… a warm bath, some books, and You Tube📺-hdtj💜
    Heidi💜 says:

    precious, Sandee, and Zane. So, the fairy tale does exist?

  10. Tails Around the Ranch – Denver, CO – The inspiration behind this blog was one knuckleheaded Standard Poodle named Sam but is now inspired by a House Pony-Wilson. I'm Monika, the upright. Living in the Denver metro area, we post about dogs, rescue and nature. So grab your favorite beverage and be prepared to howl along with our adventures. And don't forget to bark your 'pup-tacular' comment; we'd love to hear from you.
    Tails Around the Ranch says:

    Your story is better than a Hallmark channel movie. LOVE it, Sandee.

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      It is to us. Thanks for weighing in. Love and hugs to you and scritches to handsome Wilson. 🙂

      • Tails Around the Ranch – Denver, CO – The inspiration behind this blog was one knuckleheaded Standard Poodle named Sam but is now inspired by a House Pony-Wilson. I'm Monika, the upright. Living in the Denver metro area, we post about dogs, rescue and nature. So grab your favorite beverage and be prepared to howl along with our adventures. And don't forget to bark your 'pup-tacular' comment; we'd love to hear from you.
        Tails Around the Ranch says:

        Yours is a beautiful love story. Thank you for sharing it❣️Hugs and tail wiggles from Wilson and me.

  11. Marv, Kozmo, Jo Jo & Nutmeg – Midway, BC – This is our Wordpress login. We also create the badges for the Cat Blogosphere. The Cat Blogosphere is INCLUSIVE! Although it is a US based, we accept all pets from around the world! (Including Canadians and Dogs). Each month you can find badges for special events at the Cat Blogosphere. If you need a smaller size, each Month we upload smaller versions of the badges to our blog (cats-astrophic-events . blogspot . com extra spaces around the .) BTW, we ARE CANADIAN! Elbows Up!
    Marv, Kozmo, Jo Jo says:

    What a wonderful love story! You have made my heart sing. Thanks so much for sharing and surrounding yourself with a bubble of JOY! Keep being AWESOME! Barb (and Marvelous)

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      I’m happy about that. Love and hugs to you, scritches to the furbabes and a smooch to Marvelous Marv. 🙂

  12. messymimi's meanderings – In south Louisiana\'s beautiful swamps.
    messymimi's meanderings says:

    I’m so very glad you have each other. You make a wonderful couple. A blessed and beautiful Easter to both of you, and scritches to Lil’ Bit and Squeaker.

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We are most blessed and we know it. Happy Good Friday. Love and hugs. 🙂

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      You’re most welcome. We’ve had a wonderful life together and it’s not over yet. Love and hugs. 🙂

  13. suzannedunaway – I am a French Tuxie who has an opinion on just about everything. Whether you agree or disagree, I'm interested.
    suzannedunaway says:

    Oh, you two, we just love your photos, the keys, and weak knees!!!!!! What an incredible life.

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We’ve had an incredible life indeed. Happy Good Friday. 🙂

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      Bless you for saying this. We did our best to help those that needed help. 🙂

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We have a wonderful love story. The keys mean so much. Happy day and weekend. Love and hugs to you and scritches to the kitties. 🙂

  14. Rosey says:

    Proof that good things are worth waiting for, it’s like a romance straight out of Hollywood. I love when real-life stories end up with such a happy ending!

  15. Debbie D. – Suburban Toronto, Canada – Dog Mom and (retired) Canine Innkeeper, known as "The Doglady". Former corporate workaholic. Writer, photographer, digital creator. Animal lover, music fanatic, inveterate traveller. Eternal "hippie rockchick". History, literature and cinema buff. Hockey and soccer fan. Dedicated night owl. German/Canadian binational, multilingual. Let me entertain you!
    Debbie D. says:

    What a wonderful love story! 💖 You and Zane were meant to be. 🌹 And congrats in advance for your 26th anniversary. 🎉

  16. Natasha – Writer, fitness enthusiast, nature lover, home diva, spiritual Buddhist with a streak of crazy.
    Natasha says:

    Gosh! An utterly delightful love story, Sandee, that’s infectious and gives a whole lot of us the cupid in our eyes. :))

    You both are so inspiring and I wish you a long life of unlimited romance and fun.

    Kisses xoxo

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We are a great love story. Thank you, Sweetie Natasha. Love and hugs. 🙂

  17. Dozer (Bookend) says:

    I loved that both of you could come. I was fortunate enough to work with you both! The two most badass Lt’s to ever have boots on the ground at the real Jail. Glad you like the souvenir! All we needed was Coffee and Keys back in the day!

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      Love you my bookend. We had a great time. We were honored that we were in the mix. 🙂

  18. kittiesblue – Roanoke, VA – Tandem bike rider with the best husband ever (married 47 years), gardener, blogger and kitty addict and caregiver. My license plate is PRRFCT and I have a tattoo of my blog logo on my calf.
    kittiesblue says:

    I had no idea you were once in law enforcement. It is a wonderful story of how you two met, and you obviously had a common interest. Such wonderful photos of you two as well. Thanks so much for sharing these background stories with us. Hugs and love, Janet and Kitties Blue

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We were both blessed with a fabulous career and to find each other. 🙂

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      It’s been a wonderful adventure. Love and hugs to you and Ziggy. 🙂

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