Thankful Thursday

It’s Thankful Thursday hosted by Brian of Brian’s Home. He wants us to post what we’re thankful for.

I think it’s a good thing to do each week. Focus on the positive things in our lives.

Make sure you link up to the Blog Hop at Brian’s Home and get the code to put on your blog. Then visit all the participants.

I’m thankful that today is my birthday. I’m 71 years old and life is most sweet. Hubbies birthday was on the 5th and he’s 75 years old.
[metaslider id=”41579″] I met Zane many years ago when he was doing my background investigation in the 70s. He was a sergeant at the time. I was hired later that year and began my career as deputy sheriff in adult detention (Stanislaus County). He was promoted to lieutenant early in my career and would appear at the women’s jail and I drooled over him every time I saw him. He was married to someone else and so was I. Many years went by and I ended up being the first female sergeant to be transferred to the Men’s Jail. Zane was the Jail Commander. Some months later he asked me if I want to be his administrative sergeant and I jumped at the chance. It was a wonderful learning curve. After that assignment was over I worked programs for a couple of years and then back to the Men’s Jail. By this time Zane was a captain. The years marched on and Zane was promoted to Assistant Sheriff and I was eventually promoted to Lieutenant.

We’ve spent a great deal of our lives around each other and then one day we were together. We’re growing old together and it’s been a most fulfilling adventure. We are enjoying our retirement together. We are both lucky to have found each other. I’ve loved him most of my life. He didn’t know it, but I did.

What are you thankful for today?


1. Brian’s Home
2. Dash Kitten
3. Messymimi
4. Animal Shelter Life
5. It’s a Snap!
6. Loulou
7. Thorin the Cat
8. ATCAD
9. My GBGV Life
10. Zoolatry
11. Eastside Cats
12. Friends FurEver
13. A Shutterbug
14. 15andmeowing
15. Comedy Plus
16. Milo Moments
17. Angel Little Binky
18. Catsue
19. Comfort Spiral
20. Kitties Blue
21. Grooming with Mom
22. Joy
23. Friendship Friday
24. The LLB Gang
25. One Spoiled Cat
26. Phamily Blog
27. My Tata’s Cottage
28. Layla’s Woof
29. Seasonal Vibes

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79 thoughts on “Thankful Thursday

  1. Natasha – Writer, fitness enthusiast, nature lover, home diva, spiritual Buddhist with a streak of crazy.
    Natasha says:

    Happy, happy Birthday, darling Sandee and Zane. And Congratulations!!!!
    May your lives be filled with magic, miracles, sunshine, moonlight and star shine always.
    I wish you both a healthy, peaceful, abundant and a joyous life together.

    How beautiful are these pictures. I love the cutie-patootie babies that you two were. ♥♥
    Thank you for sharing all these lovely photos from the yester-years. Loved going back in time with you.
    So happy you both found a lovely soul mate in each other.

    Bless your beautiful souls. And I salute your absolutely inspiring career.

    God speed, and loads of happy tidings always.

    Have a supercalifragalisticexpiealadoshous birthday and a delicious year ahead.

    Love you loads, sweet sunshine, Sandee. ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

  2. Memories of Eric and Flynn – I started this blog to show my holiday photos but haven't added to it for so long, but you can see my other holiday photos at https://allatseawithme.blogspot.com My main blog is my cat blog at https://twodevoncats.blogspot.com
    Memories of Eric and Flynn says:

    Happy birthday Sandee, and again to Zane for the 5th. These are such lovely photos, and it is nice to be able to put a face to the name. It seems you were always destined to be together and you make a very good looking couple.

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      I never thought we’d be together. He is a very loyal person and would have stayed married to his first wife, but she kicked him out and that was that. He left. 🙂

  3. MadSnapper says:

    Happy Birthday to both of you, and so happy you finally got together. I enjoying seeing all the photos and my favorite of you is the one in uniform. He and I share the same day, the 5th, but I am 78, so older.

  4. My GBGV Life – Minnesota, USA – I am a GBGV, Grand Basset Griffon Vendeén - enjoying my life and sharing my experiences.
    My GBGV Life says:

    Happy, happy, birthday to you! What a wonderful love story. Fate kept you both together yet apart for so long and in prison, LOL! We are so happy the two of you have each other, it is definitely meant to be.

  5. Eastside Cats Blog – Metro Detroit, Michigan USA – Follow my three cat families and other cat antics at https://eastsidecats.blogspot.com/
    Eastside Cats Blog says:

    Maybe you two could write a book!
    Happy Birthday, and to many more for both of you.

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      Thank you so much and thank you for hosting the Thankful Thursday Blog Hop. 🙂

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      Thank you for sharing your life with me. I loved my card and I’m going to love my birthday dinner. 🙂

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      There are so many more things, but this is a snapshot of our working lives right into our retirement. Hugs. 🙂

  6. Kismet – New River, Arizona. – I'm a 16 year old Indian Ringneck parrot curmudgeon in New River, Arizona in the wild west country. If you're a sunflower seed, you're dinner.
    Kismet says:

    There is nothing like finding your mate in prison.

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      I’m glad I got my guy too. I’m a lucky gal. Happy Thankful Thursday. Scritches to the kitties. 🙂

  7. Eugi – Atlanta Ga – A Pushcart Prize nominee in 2025, my poetry appears in twelve anthologies, and my work is published across six platforms, inclusive of WordPress, PoetrySoup, Spillwords, BlueSky, Mastodon, and Tumblr. I am among those who received Socialite of the Year (Honorary Award) for the Year 2025 by Spillwords Press. I’m thrilled in be in the company of such a talented group of kindred souls. Now retired, I enjoyed a dedicated career in the insurance industry for over 40 years being rewarded professionally and personally.
    Eugenia says:

    Happy Birthday, Sandee! Thank you for sharing your story and wishing you and Zane a forever and beautiful future. Happy Thursday! 💕

      • Eugi – Atlanta Ga – A Pushcart Prize nominee in 2025, my poetry appears in twelve anthologies, and my work is published across six platforms, inclusive of WordPress, PoetrySoup, Spillwords, BlueSky, Mastodon, and Tumblr. I am among those who received Socialite of the Year (Honorary Award) for the Year 2025 by Spillwords Press. I’m thrilled in be in the company of such a talented group of kindred souls. Now retired, I enjoyed a dedicated career in the insurance industry for over 40 years being rewarded professionally and personally.
        Eugenia says:

        💕Most welcome, Sandee!

  8. Tails Around the Ranch – Denver, CO – The inspiration behind this blog was one knuckleheaded Standard Poodle named Sam but is now inspired by a House Pony-Wilson. I'm Monika, the upright. Living in the Denver metro area, we post about dogs, rescue and nature. So grab your favorite beverage and be prepared to howl along with our adventures. And don't forget to bark your 'pup-tacular' comment; we'd love to hear from you.
    Tails Around the Ranch says:

    Happy birthday, friend! Norman sends his softest birthday kisses and we all hope today is full of good cheer, loads of laughter and a few tasty treats. You two Virgos make such a striking couple. Cheers! 🎉 🎁 🎈 🎂

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      I’m having a wonderful birthday and now it’s complete with Normans birthday kisses. 🙂

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      I’m a lucky gal, and hubby says he’s a lucky guy. All is well. Love and healing hugs, Carol. 🙂

  9. Catherine – I am the owner, manager and author of the popular food & lifestyle blog, Living the Gourmet. With the intention of 'making traditional and exotic cuisines simple', I have set out to promote only the best ingredients for easy, home-cooked meals that anyone and everyone can enjoy. Living the Gourmet showcases a variety of cuisines and cooking techniques. There is always something new to discover and enjoy! http://livingthegourmet.com/
    Catherine says:

    Dear Sandee, Sounds like a beautiful love story. You are blessed to have each other.

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      It’s been a wonderful journey, Catherine. We are blessed to have each other. 🙂

  10. Bette A. Stevens – Central Maine, USA – "I'm a writer inspired by nature and human nature!" ~ Bette A. Stevens Bette A. Stevens is a retired teacher, a wife, mother of two and grandmother of five. Stevens lives in Central Maine with her husband on their 37-acre farmstead where she enjoys writing, gardening, walking and reveling in the beauty of nature. She advocates for children and childhood literacy and for monarch butterflies, an endangered species. Stevens’s children’s activity book, THE TANGRAM ZOO and WORD PUZZLES TOO! was first published in 1997 by Windswept House Publishing, Mt. Desert, ME; a second edition was self-published by the author in 2012. AMAZING MATILDA , Stevens's second children's book, self-published in 2012, won a 2013 Purple Dragonfly Book Award (Honorable Mention for Excellence in Children's Literature - Ages 6 and older category) and placed #9 on The 2013 Gittle List TOP 10for Self-published Children’s Picture Books. Stevens has written articles for ECHOES, The Northern Maine Journal of Rural Culture based in Caribou, Maine. In 2013, the author published her first book for the YA/Adult audience: PURE TRASH, a short story of a boy growing up in rural New England in a family whose poverty and alcoholism mark him as a target for bullying by young and old alike. This short story is a prequel to Stevens's debut novel, DOG BONE SOUP, A Boomer’s Journey released in January of 2015.
    Bette A. Stevens says:

    Today is my youngest daughter’s 52nd birthday. I’m thankful for my family every day… Thanks for sharing your story and photos, Sandee. ♫ HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! ♫ ❤ Have a beautiful day and a new year filled with abundant blessings! ❤

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      My son is 52 and his birthday was August 1st. Thank you for the wonderful wishes. 🙂

  11. Dakota/Caren/Cody – Michigan – Freelance writer, pet blogging professional, product influencer, half of the writing team behind Dakota's Den and "Cat Chat With Cody & Caren" Most importantly, I am a "pet mom" to Dakota, (Shetland Sheepdog) and Cody (my silver gray tabby!)
    Caren says:

    First, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY and Happy Belated to your hubby!! You two are definitely soulmates!! You know what? You even look alike!!! You seriously do! Your love story is beautiful and I love that you shared these photos! Hoping you are having a most wonderful birthday! I am certain that you are!!! xoxo

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We look alike? Well we have been together for many years. We’re having a wonderful birthday week. 🙂

  12. Michelle – Hi, I am Michelle, I am married to a wonderful Christian man & my best friend ever, in the world. We live in the Peachy state of GA. I hope to inspire and encourage you through my blog posts.
    Michelle says:

    Wow, Sandee! I really enjoyed learning more about you and Zane. Great pictures. Thanks for sharing!

    Happy Birthday, Sandee!!🎂.🤗

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We had a wonderful love story that has stretched out over the years. Thank you. 🙂

  13. Kathe W. – Married to my best pal, mother of three grown children, retired and wouldn't be able to fit work in now-too busy having fun and learning new things every day.
    Kathe W. says:

    Awwww I love all the photos- you two are so blessed to have found each other and having a wonderful life together! Happy Happy Birthday to you both- and lots of hugs too! WE are so lucky to have met you and we appreciate all you do for us bloggers! xoxoxo

    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      Aw, thank you, Kathe. I’m so thankful that hubby and I got to meet you and Russell in person. Miss Lucy too. 🙂

  14. Zen's Mama says:

    Happy Belated Birthday Sandee!! You’re just under two years older than me, and I’m happy to see that you are thankful for another birthday!

    I remember many years ago my mother telling a few of my friends that the “advice” to women to never admit their true age was a bunch of b.s. 😁 And when they tried to argue with her, she simply said “having another birthday is better than the alternative.”

  15. Magical Mystical Mimi
    Magical Mystical Mimi says:

    Man! I can’t believe I missed reading this on your actual birthday. I feel awful about that. I hope you had the happiest of birthdays ever, and your hubby too. And wow, check you guys out. A couple of hotties! I am so happy you have each other and have been so close for all those years. I think it’s fate or divine intervention… Whatever it was it’s amazing and this post makes me smile and gets me teary eyed. Good for you guys!

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