The Clark’s

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Zane’s Story: In 1969 I was sworn in as a Deputy Sheriff for Stanislaus County California and spent the first two years of my career working in the men’s jail. In 1971 I saw and fell head over heels in love with Sandee, although she had no idea who I was.

In 1987 I returned to the men’s jail as Sheriff’s Lieutenant to command that facility. I was the first Lt. Clark there.

In 1989 Sandee came to the men’s jail from the women’s facility as Sergeant and the first woman to break the “cross sex supervisions” wall.

In 1992 I was transferred to another division which enabled us to marry. Sandee was promoted to Lieutenant and in 2002 became the first woman and second Lt. Clark to command the men’s jail.

Part II tomorrow.

52 thoughts on “The Clark’s”

  1. Natasha – Writer, fitness enthusiast, nature lover, home diva, spiritual Buddhist with a streak of crazy.
    Natasha says:

    OMG, precious, Sandee. What an illustrious life you and Zane have had. So grateful to you, for sharing these snippets from back in time.

    Wishing you both so much love, well being, peace, ease and joy always.

    I love you. ♥

    Reply
    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      I wouldn’t trade a thing. It was a wonderful career and Zane is the love of my life. Love and hugs. 🙂

      Reply
  3. onespoiledcat – Virginia – We are Angel Sammy and Teddy......! Two ginger cats - one left for the Rainbow Bridge in December of 2016 (but still keeps in touch...) and the other in the "here and now" having lots of fun. Join us as we try to bring smiles to everyone around us with our blog.
    Pam and Teddy says:

    WOWZERS…….that’s some background – love the story – some things were meant to be!

    Hugs, Pam and Teddy

    Reply
    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We were meant to be. Love and hugs to you and lots of scritches to handsome Teddy. 🙂

      Reply
  4. suzannedunaway – I am a French Tuxie who has an opinion on just about everything. Whether you agree or disagree, I'm interested.
    Loulou says:

    LOVE THIS…WHAT A TEAM, PAIR, COUPLE!!!! So impressive, but of course we knew you had done something wonderful, starting at birth!

    Reply
  5. Memories of Eric and Flynn – I started this blog to show my holiday photos but haven't added to it for so long, but you can see my other holiday photos at https://allatseawithme.blogspot.com My main blog is my cat blog at https://twodevoncats.blogspot.com
    Memories of Eric and Flynn says:

    Wow! What a great story, I can’t wait to read more. 1971 was the year Ivor and I got married. Sixteen years was a long break in between, but gave you both chance to develop your lives.

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    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      Yes it did. We didn’t get together until the mid 90s. It was a wonderful thing. Love and hugs, Jackie. 🙂

      Reply
    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      I did a few firsts and I’m happy about that. Now women are everywhere. 🙂

      Reply
    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      I was the first female sergeant to be transferred to the Men’s Jail. 🙂

      Reply
  8. My GBGV Life – Minnesota, USA – I am a GBGV, Grand Basset Griffon Vendeén - enjoying my life and sharing my experiences.
    My GBGV Life says:

    And now you are handcuffed together forever! What a cool story and such amazing firsts as well.

    Reply
    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      Yes we are and we’re happy about it. Happy day and rest of the week. 🙂

      Reply
  10. Mr. Ohh's Sideways View – Ohio USA – I am one in a long line of humans who see the world a bit different from everyone else. I am often caught dancing to the music in my head. Please join me in my support of World Laughter
    Mr. Ohh! says:

    I hope Sandee was a guard and not… well you know. He He He. 🤣😎🙃

    Reply
    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      I was a custody sergeant not an inmate. You made me chuckle. 🙂

      Reply
  14. Heidi Dare Turner Jenkins – MURFREESBORO NC – There was a girl who got through the day with routines and laughter. and some memes…chores, laughs, smiles, and some cats…food, naps, plus coffee too…then yoga for the win… a warm bath, some books, and You Tube📺-hdtj💜
    Heidi Dare Turner Jenkins says:

    That is a great story. I cannot wait till part 2 tomorrow

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    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      It’s been a wonderful ride working and being married to Zane. 🙂

      Reply
  15. Debbie D. – Suburban Toronto, Canada – Dog Mom and (retired) Canine Innkeeper, known as "The Doglady". Former corporate workaholic. Writer, photographer, digital creator. Animal lover, music fanatic, inveterate traveller. Eternal "hippie rockchick". History, literature and cinema buff. Hockey and soccer fan. Dedicated night owl. German/Canadian binational, multilingual. Let me entertain you!
    Debbie D. says:

    What a wonderful love story, Sandee and Zane! 💖 Looking forward to part 2.

    Reply
    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We’ve had a wonderful career and life together. At the end of this month we’ll have been married for 26 years. 🙂

      Reply
  16. Xena, Lucy and Chia – Soddy Daisy, TN USA
    Amy Sandy says:

    I hit like, but preferred to find a “love” button! I had no idea that this was your profession, Sandee! Can’t wait for part 2!!

    Reply
    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      It’s been a wonderful adventure. Happy day and rest of the week. 🙂

      Reply
    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We are very glad about that, too. Love and hugs, my friend. 🙂

      Reply
  22. Tails Around the Ranch – Denver, CO – The inspiration behind this blog was one knuckleheaded Standard Poodle named Sam but is now inspired by a House Pony-Wilson. I'm Monika, the upright. Living in the Denver metro area, we post about dogs, rescue and nature. So grab your favorite beverage and be prepared to howl along with our adventures. And don't forget to bark your 'pup-tacular' comment; we'd love to hear from you.
    Tails Around the Ranch says:

    Squee…what a fairytale story about your meeting. Love it! 💙

    Reply
    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      It took a long time, but the wait was worth it. Love and hugs to you and scritches to Wilson. 🙂

      Reply
  23. Marv, Kozmo, Jo Jo & Nutmeg – Midway, BC – This is our Wordpress login. We also create the badges for the Cat Blogosphere. The Cat Blogosphere is INCLUSIVE! Although it is a US based, we accept all pets from around the world! (Including Canadians and Dogs). Each month you can find badges for special events at the Cat Blogosphere. If you need a smaller size, each Month we upload smaller versions of the badges to our blog (cats-astrophic-events . blogspot . com extra spaces around the .) BTW, we ARE CANADIAN! Elbows Up!
    Marv, Kozmo, Jo Jo says:

    HmHad to change devices. I LOVE your LOVE story! Thanks for sharing with use! You are both amazing and awesome! Love Barb

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    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We loved each other and the other didn’t know it for a very long time. 🙂

      Reply
    • Sandee – California – Home of Awww Mondays, Happy Tuesday, and Wordless Wednesday.
      Sandee says:

      We’ve had a charmed life. Happy week, my friend. Love and hugs to you and Ziggy. 🙂

      Reply

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